Don't Ask. I don't Know

I have to say this.

I do not accept bullsit. Ever!

And I have noticed recently that some 'friends' of ours have stopped talking, stopped logging into messengers and all around ignoring us.

Particularly when we were in need of a friend.

THEN I hear that they believe more of themselves than they really should.

IN Some cases I have noticed that they talk highly of themselves. "I am a really good friend. I am highly confident in this."

In others they expect their 'input' to be more highly regarded than any others."

If you are such a good friend... you would not ignore people and then lie to them about it.  I was told by one person that he would not talk to me until I sorted things out with another friend of his.

I also believe that 'good friends' do not go around bragging about such things. I have issues answering those questions on a job applications. I HATE stating something about myself that should really come from an outside source. I do not know what people think of me  and I do not presume to know. If you are a good friend people should be telling you... not the other way around.

If someone is saying "I am a really good friend. Better than most." Then they are A. Fishing for compliments and when they dont receive them... give them to themselves instead and expect everyone to concur. and B. They are spending too much time thinking of themselves and obviously not enough time thinking about others.

If you wish to fool yourselves. Fine... I have no problems with that.

But lie to me and you have crossed the wrong person.

(Addendum: As always I am doubting my point of view so I went to a friend who helped me out with the Amanda situation. Here is her opinion
Real Friend pages: the more bragging that a person does, usually the less worth it they are
Real Friend has an acquaintance that's ALWAYS telling me what kind of person they are, how this or that is great, as if they were trying to convince themselves)

Tags: real friends
Current Location: Where Do You Think
Current Mood: Disgusted
Current Music: Mythbusters

Storm ended up doing these. And thanks to DanteJade for sharing them.

Tags: multiple monday, storm
Current Location: Bay Area
Current Music: No Music Unfortunately

 Even though we feel more like the 6:49 AM This fits too I guess.

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You scored as Rogue Rogue is a strong but tragic personality. She loves Gambit. Because of her mutant powers, she cannot touch anyone without hurting them. Therefore, she longs for human contact. However, this southern gal's strong personality has allowed her to deal with this. Powers: Absorbs lifeforce and powers by touch, Super strength, and flight Wolverine 100% Rogue 100% Gambit 80% Colossus 80% Iceman 70% Storm 70% Emma Frost 65% Nightcrawler 45% Jean Grey 45% Cyclops 25% Beast 10%

Horoscope Test for 2008

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Alright so I had something to say earlier this afternoon it just simply didn't want to come out right now. It was all about Pheonix.  She seems to be on my mind a lot lately.  I suppose it has something to do with how active I've been here.  I never really noticed her before.  That may be because Professor Xavier had such a strong hold on her.  She is ever present in my mind these days.  I am worried now that she is becoming a part of Duchess as well.  It could go either way.  The Duchess angelic nature could be a calming influence on The Pheonix or she could only encourage her. Either way it is a powerful alliance and not one I think I could stop.  Duchess once commented that Pheonix is too powerful an entity for one soul to possess.  Yet for so long I managed.  Though this was with the help of Xavier.  As Im sure you could tell at this point I am very confused about everything that has gone on in the past couple of years. I now have this new entity, this new part of me to contend with.  I have to learn how to accept her as part of me and work with her.  I have to learn to be complete with her there.  I have to accept that she will be there even in the tiniest moments, the most private moments in my life. She was always there of course but now.  Now she is a more prominent entity and I know shes there.  I want to accept her.  Don't get me wrong.  She is an amazing creature and I am honored that she chose me.  Its just a tad unnerving at times.   To know that you will never be alone.  I hope sometime in the future she and I will mesh so completely that it will just be us. One day soon we will be one individual. There will be no Jean Grey or The Pheonix.  She will be Jean Grey and I will be The Pheonix.